Just because you have reproductive organs does not mean that you should reproduce. Deciding to become a parent is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. I know, those ribbons, bows, and itty bitty football shirts are so dang cute. But, remember, you will be responsible for keeping another human being alive and you’re probably not a doctor!!!!! You must provide food, clothing, & shelter. You must provide unconditional love. You must be at their beck and call 24 hours a day. You must not leave them unattended. And, I haven’t even gotten to the terrible two’s. Of course, all of those “musts” are contingent upon the premise that you plan on being a GOOD parent.
If it’s important that you go to the club every Friday and Saturday If an updated wardrobe is the most important thing in your life If you need 12 hours of sleep each day I’m not saying that you will never be ready, but until you can accept the fact that it’s never going to be about you, again