By: Dr. J

Dr. J — Wed, 30 Oct 2013 21:44:13 +0000

JR, my children ALWAYS try to engage me in conversations about sex. I think that they know that it makes me uncomfortable to talk about the “S” word with them. Certain sexual acts may have been around when I was growing up, but NO ONE mentioned it in public. A girl kissing a girl is one of those things. The big one, and most widely accepted is Oral sex. I’m just not ready to talk openly about that with my children. But, I don’t have to because it is all over the TV!!!!!!!!!

By: JR

JR — Sun, 20 Oct 2013 19:59:37 +0000

So Dr. J, what is the lesson here? I learned something today because I had no idea what “lettuce” meant. I definitely have a different perspective on the “salad bar.” Do your children try to engage you in matters of sex? Funny, during my childhood, I remember the sex talks as “don’t do it.” End of discussion. I have talked about sex at multiple levels with my children. I don’t believe it encouraged them or dissuaded them from engaging in the act. If they did, they were aware of the implications of indulgence at mentally and physically premature stages. We cannot imagine our kids having sex…at whatever age! We’d like to think, especially when they are young teens, that our children’s innocence remains “intact” or natural state. Experimentation is a driver among the youth, i. e., “I kissed a girl and I liked it.”

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